the presence of a man

we,girls,always dream of a white knight who will come riding the white horse and who will pick me up from my life's miseries to the happiness and land of opportunities-Not the US!
And we will live happily ever after.
a true cliche!:D
i have to say it out loud,
no body can make you happy,happiness is like any other thing in life, you have to work your ass off to make it happen and last.
there is no happiness if it will not come truly from inside of you.
if you will fake happiness,this will lead you to a miserable life, filled with sorrows and emptiness.
The presence of a man in a woman's life is not always a life savior.Recently i have encountered 2 females that told me they were faking happiness for 4 yrs and 19 yrs respectively,after marriage,in order to keep their houses carried on.They swallowed and swallowed until the were on the verge of insanity or a crime commitment.
Their choice was not to continue,no matter what.
They were about to loose their humanity.
See? a man can truly change you from a decent creature up to a true devil,unless a wake up call is sent to you from high above.
To be fair, a woman can do so to a man as well!
no body is secured.
in commitment,you have to make the good choice and not to rush.
deal with it as a business deal..nothing is called love in this world.
love is a word created to bluff the persons.
we get married to have sex and have company and not to be alone in this world.full stop!
love is just a decent word for the desire for sex.
It is not decent that a man goes to a woman and tells her,i wanna fuck you!
She will say back to him , go fuck yourself , with all the decency in the world, as well !
So , human beings have created this word, i love you.
In movies and novels, they keep saying that this word is a magical word.When just mentioned, life will change and will open her arms to you.This is just a state of mind.A brown cigarette-sigara bonny- that you took by mistake and masked your judgement until you wake up and see your partner , truly as he is or she is.
Most of these ideas are presented in this enchanted magical romantic movie.
The true strength comes from deep within you
do not any body , in the name of whatever, controls over your ideas and directions in life.
always read,if you can't study.
do not depend on someone to make you happy.
do not ever trade your whole life and carrier for the sake of love or marriage or any kind of commitment.
Old people used to say,
not to add all your eggs in one basket ;)
Ciao :D